Cancer yog ib yam uas txhua tus ntshai. Kev kuaj mob tsis tau txais tos tab sis nws tshwj xeeb tshaj yog kev ntxhov siab thaum nws yuav cuam tshuam rau niam txiv, niam tais yawm txiv, kwv tij neej tsa, lossis lwm tus neeg hlub. Koj tuaj yeem tham nrog menyuam yaus thiab npaj lawv li cas? Thaum nws tsis yooj yim, lawv tsim nyog paub - tsuas yog ua kom ntseeg tau tias koj xaiv lub sijhawm raug, piav qhia raws li lawv tuaj yeem nkag siab, thiab qhib siab thiab ncaj ncees ntawm cov ncauj lus.
Cov kauj ruam
Ntu 1 ntawm 3: Nrhiav Sijhawm Zoo
Kauj Ruam 1. Xaiv lub sijhawm ntsiag to
Txog kev hais lus qhov tseem ceeb no, koj yuav xav teem sijhawm ib ntus thaum koj yuav tsis ntxhov siab. Xaiv lub sijhawm uas koj tsis maj thiab qhov chaw uas koj yuav tsis ntsib kev cuam tshuam. Sim nrhiav lub sijhawm uas koj nyob kaj siab lug, kom ua rau tus menyuam yooj yim dua.
- Xav txog kev tshem tawm qhov cuam tshuam uas ua tau. Tua koj lub xov tooj, lub qhov cub, lub tshuab ntxhua khaub ncaws, thiab lwm yam khoom siv. Tso tus dev, yog tias koj muaj. Koj xav kom zam kev cuam tshuam.
- Tsis txhob nqa cov ncauj lus ua ntej mus pw lossis ib qho xwm txheej tseem ceeb - tsom rau lub sijhawm thaum cov menyuam tuaj yeem nqa cov ntaub ntawv.
- Sim kom muaj lwm tus neeg laus nrog koj, ib yam, zoo li koom nrog, koom nrog hauv tsev neeg, lossis txawm tias yog kws kho mob. Txoj kev ntawd, cov menyuam yuav paub tias muaj lwm tus neeg laus uas lawv tuaj yeem tham nrog.
- Xav txog yam koj xav hais ua ntej thiab sim xav txog cov lus nug. Tsim cov lus teb ntawm qib uas cov menyuam tuaj yeem nkag siab.
Kauj Ruam 2. Tham nrog cov menyuam ib tus zuj zus
Nws tuaj yeem yog lub tswv yim zoo los tham nrog cov menyuam ib leeg zuj zus es tsis yog ua pab pawg. Rau ib yam, lawv yuav raug cais los ntawm hnub nyoog thiab qib kev nkag siab. Tham nrog lawv sib cais tso cai rau koj los txiav cov ntaub ntawv thiab saib seb lawv teb rau nws li cas. Nws tseem yuav cia tus menyuam nug cov lus nug kom deb ntawm lwm tus thiab nyob deb ntawm kev cuam tshuam.
Sim nrhiav seb tus menyuam paub dab tsi txog mob qog noj ntshav lawm thiab qhov twg lawv kawm nws. Hais ib yam dab tsi zoo li, “Kuv xav tham nrog koj txog mob. Koj puas tau hnov dua mob qog noj ntshav ua ntej?”
Kauj Ruam 3. Ua siab ntev thiab teb cov lus nug
Cov menyuam yaus twb paub me ntsis txog mob qog noj ntshav lossis lawv yuav tsis paub dab tsi hlo li. Ib yam nkaus, lawv yuav muaj lus nug ntau lossis lawv tuaj yeem chim siab thiab thim rov qab. Npaj koj tus kheej rau ntau yam kev tawm tsam, tab sis sim ua kom qhib kev sib tham. Teb ib qho thiab txhua lo lus nug ncaj ncees.
- Npaj kom rov ua cov ntaub ntawv, tej zaum ntau zaus. Kuj xyuas kom nkag siab tias tus menyuam nkag siab qhov koj hais.
- Nco ntsoov, nws tsis ua li cas yog tias koj tsis muaj tag nrho cov lus teb, yog li yog koj tsis paub meej txog qee yam, tsis txhob ntshai hais tias, "Kuv tsis paub," lossis "Cia peb kawm txog qhov ntawd ua ke."
- Qhib thiab ncaj ncees txog koj txoj kev xav-tsis txhob zais nws yog tias koj xav tu siab lossis npau taws. Qhov ntawd yuav qhia koj tus menyuam tias lawv txoj kev xav nyob zoo, ib yam nkaus.
- Ua siab ncaj thiab qhia tus menyuam tias koj txaus siab tham nrog lawv txog mob qog noj ntshav. Txoj kev ntawd, lawv yuav tsis pom tus kab mob yog qhov txwv taboo.
Ntu 2 ntawm 3: Qhia Tus Me Nyuam Me
Kauj Ruam 1. Piav txog mob qog noj ntshav yooj yim
Tus menyuam me yuav xav tau koj los piav qhia txog mob qog noj ntshav hauv cov lus yooj yim. Qhov no tsis txhais hais tias ua rau muaj kev cuam tshuam ntau ntxiv raws li xaiv cov lus raug thiab muab cov ntaub ntawv raug. Xav txog yam koj xav hais thiab cov lus siv - piv txwv li, tej zaum koj yuav xav xaiv cov lus yooj yim xws li "kws kho mob" rau "kws kho mob qog noj ntshav" lossis "tshuaj" tsis txhob siv tshuaj kho mob."
- Tus menyuam yaus hnub nyoog qis dua 8 tuaj yeem nkag siab tias lub cev muaj ntau qhov. Koj tuaj yeem qhia lawv tias tam sim no thiab tom qab ntawd muaj qee yam tsis raug nrog ib qho ntawm cov ntu no. Nws tsis ua haujlwm raws li nws yuav tsum tau thiab tsis yog ib txwm muaj.
- Hais tias lub cev ib feem uas tsis ua haujlwm dhau sijhawm tsim cov qog lossis qog. Cov pob no tuaj yeem kis mus rau lwm qhov hauv lub cev, yog li nws yuav tsum tau muab tshem tawm lossis nres ntawm kev loj hlob. Nov yog yam kws kho mob yuav ua.
- Cov menyuam yaus hnub nyoog dhau 8 xyoos tuaj yeem nkag siab qhov kev sib tham nyuaj dua thiab xav pom cov duab ntawm cov qog nqaij hlav cancer lossis nyeem txog kev kho mob. Koj kuj tseem tuaj yeem qhia lawv lub npe ntawm tus mob qog noj ntshav, lub cev ib feem cuam tshuam li cas, thiab cov qog nqaij hlav sib txawv xav tau kev kho mob sib txawv li cas.
Kauj Ruam 2. Piav seb yuav muaj dab tsi tshwm sim, dua hauv nqe lus yooj yim
Kev piav qhia mob qog noj ntshav tsuas yog ib feem ntawm kev sib tham. Cov menyuam yaus yuav zoo li xav paub tias yuav muaj dab tsi tshwm sim, yog li, ntxiv, koj yuav tsum tau piav qhia kev kho mob qog noj ntshav hauv cov hlab ntsha yooj yim. Cov menyuam yau nkag siab noj tshuaj thiab koj tuaj yeem kho cov tshuaj kho mob raws li cov lus no. Kev phais lossis kho hluav taws xob yuav nyuaj dua.
- Nug cov menyuam seb lawv paub dab tsi, xws li "Koj puas paub tshuaj kho mob yog dab tsi?" lossis "Koj puas paub tias kev kho hluav taws xob yog dab tsi?"
- Lub hom phiaj rau lub tswv yim yooj yim uas mob qog noj ntshav - pob uas ua rau lub cev tsis ua haujlwm - yuav tsum tau tso tseg. Nws tuaj yeem sib kis thiab ua rau lwm yam mob hauv lub cev. Cov kws kho mob tuaj yeem ua qhov no nrog tshuaj, kab teeb ntawm lub zog hu ua hluav taws xob, lossis los ntawm kev tshem nws tawm.
- Piav qhia qhov tshwm sim tshwm sim los ntawm kev kho mob. Cov menyuam yaus tuaj yeem pom plaub hau lossis hnyav dua, qaug zog, lossis xeev siab raws li cov cim qhia tias mob hnyav zuj zus tuaj. Qhia rau lawv paub tias kev kho mob yuav ua rau cov no thiab tsis txhais tau tias mob qog noj ntshav hnyav zuj zus.
- Muab kev tso cai rau tus menyuam mus ntsib kev kho mob kom saib xyuas thiab sib tham, yog ua tau. Qhov no tuaj yeem pab ua pov thawj txheej txheem ntawm kev kho mob.
Kauj Ruam 3. Ua kom tus menyuam muaj kev nyab xeeb
Cov menyuam yaus yuav xav tau kev lees paub txog tus mob thiab lwm yam kev txhawj xeeb. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog tias lawv paub tias lawv tau hlub thiab ib tus neeg yuav saib xyuas lawv, tsis muaj teeb meem dab tsi. Txawm li cas los xij, npaj los daws qee qhov kev txhawj xeeb tshwj xeeb thiab tseem ceeb.
- Cov menyuam yaus koom nrog "kev xav ua khawv koob" thiab tej zaum yuav ntshai tias lawv tau ua qee yam ua rau mob qog noj ntshav. Ua siab ncaj rau lawv tias lawv tsis tau ua dab tsi txhaum. Piv txwv li, "Cov kws kho mob hais tias tsis muaj leej twg tuaj yeem ua rau lwm tus neeg mob qog noj ntshav. Nws tsuas yog qee zaum tshwm sim."
- Ua kom pom tseeb tias mob qog noj ntshav tsis kis tau. Tsis yog menyuam yaus lossis niam txiv lossis lwm tus neeg hlub yuav "ntes" mob qog noj ntshav. Nws tsis zoo los puag, hnia, lossis hnia nrog tus neeg uas muaj mob qog noj ntshav.
- Sim ua qhov zoo thaum ua ncaj ncees. Koj tuaj yeem hais tias, "Tib neeg tuag los ntawm mob qog noj ntshav. Tab sis peb paub ntau txoj hauv kev los kho thiab kho mob qog noj ntshav tam sim no. Tib neeg tuaj yeem nyob nrog nws ntau dua li tuag."
Ntu 3 ntawm 3: Tham nrog Tus Hluas
Kauj Ruam 1. Ua kom meej ntxiv txog tus mob
Muab tej yam uas tsim nyog rau hnub nyoog, thiab qhia rau lawv paub tias lawv tuaj yeem tham nrog koj txog cov lus nug uas lawv muaj. Cov hluas feem ntau paub tias mob qog noj ntshav yog dab tsi. Tab sis lawv yuav xav paub txog yam mob qog noj ntshav tshwj xeeb, nws nyob qhov twg, thiab kev kwv yees.
- Siv cov lus tseeb thaum tham nrog cov hluas thiab tshwj xeeb. Qhia lub npe tus mob, txawm nws yog mob qog noj ntshav, mob qog noj ntshav, mob qog noj ntshav, lossis mob sarcoma.
- Qhia tshwj xeeb txog ib feem ntawm lub cev uas cuam tshuam, qhov mob qog noj ntshav feem ntau vam meej li cas, nws muaj cov tsos mob zoo li cas, thiab qhov kev kwv yees zaum kawg yog dab tsi.
- Ua qhov tseeb txog kev kuaj mob, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws. Cov hluas tuaj yeem qhia yog tias koj khaws qee yam ntawm lawv, thiab koj tsis xav ua kom lawv ntseeg siab rau koj.
- Txuas tus tub ntxhais hluas rau cov ntaub ntawv ntau ntxiv xws li ntawv me me lossis ntawv. Koj kuj tseem tuaj yeem sim phau ntawv sau tshwj xeeb rau cov hluas uas muaj tus hlub nrog mob qog noj ntshav.
Kauj Ruam 2. Muab cov ncauj lus ntxiv txog kev kho mob
Zoo li tus mob, cov hluas yuav xav paub ntau ntxiv txog chav kho mob. Koj tsis tas yuav tseg cov ntsiab lus thiab qhov tseeb, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj los qhib thiab ncaj ncees txog qhov nws yuav koom nrog. Nco ntsoov qhia lawv txog cov txheej txheem uas kws kho mob tab tom txiav txim siab - phais, kuaj ntshav, lossis hluav taws xob - nrog rau qhov tshwm sim tshwm sim tuaj.
- Qhia rau tus hluas paub tias koj yuav khaws lawv hloov tshiab ntawm kev kho mob, nrog rau tsev neeg cov rooj sib tham tsis tu ncua lossis tham zaum zaum.
- Cov hluas tseem tuaj yeem txaus siab lossis tuaj yeem ua lub luag haujlwm ntxiv thaum kho mob qog noj ntshav, ib puag ncig lub tsev lossis lwm qhov. Qhia rau lawv paub tias lawv tuaj yeem pab lossis hloov pauv lawv txoj haujlwm li cas.
Kauj Ruam 3. Tham txog tias lawv lub neej yuav raug cuam tshuam li cas
Cov hluas yuav ntsib cov xov xwm mob qog noj ntshav nrog kev tu siab. Lawv kuj tseem tuaj yeem ua rau pom qhov tsis haum, xws li npau taws, txaj muag, lossis nyob deb. Qhov no tsis yog vim lawv tsis quav ntsej tab sis vim yog lawv tus kheej theem ntawm kev txhim kho kev xav. Xijpeem koj tus menyuam qhov kev tawm tsam, sim ua kom txoj kab kev sib txuas lus qhib thiab txheeb xyuas ntau zaus. Ua siab ntev thiab npaj los teb cov lus nug txog yav tom ntej, ib yam.
- Cov hluas yuav paub txog mob qog noj ntshav thiab tuaj yeem nug txog kev tuag. Sim ua siab ncaj yog tias qhov kev kuaj mob hnyav. Txawm li cas los xij, koj tseem tuaj yeem cia siab yog qhov xwm txheej hu rau nws, piv txwv li "Tus mob qog noj ntshav tuaj yeem kho tau thiab peb yuav ua txhua yam nws yuav siv kom zoo dua." Lossis, "Peb tsis paub tias yuav muaj dab tsi tshwm sim. Tab sis, cov kws kho mob xav tias muaj txoj hauv kev muaj txoj sia nyob zoo."
- Cov hluas tab tom loj hlob - lawv xav tau chaw thiab nkag siab zoo ib yam li lwm tus menyuam, txawm tias lawv tau pab nyob hauv tsev. Qhia rau cov hluas paub tias lawv tseem yuav tsum mob siab rau ua haujlwm hauv tsev kawm ntawv, pom phooj ywg, thiab muaj lub neej nyob sab nrauv ntawm lub tsev.
