Vam tias koj yuav tsis pom koj tus kheej nyob rau hauv txoj haujlwm uas koj yuav tsum ua nrog kev ua tub sab tub nyiag. Kev ua tub sab tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev ntxhov siab thiab txaus ntshai rau txhua tus neeg koom nrog, txawm tias cov uas tau kawm tiav. Txawm li cas los xij, nyob twj ywm thiab khaws tau tuaj yeem pab koj kom dim ntawm qhov kev nyuaj siab thiab pab koj ua haujlwm nrog tub ceev xwm, tom qab ntawd, coj tus tub sab mus rau kev ncaj ncees.
Cov kauj ruam
Txoj Kev 1 ntawm 2: Nyob Ua Ke
Kauj Ruam 1. Rov hais dua cov lus uas ua rau koj tus kheej xis nyob
Koj tuaj yeem pab koj tus kheej kom nyob ntsiag to thaum muaj kev ua tub sab los ntawm kev rov hais dua qee cov lus nyob rau koj tus kheej. Cov kab lus no yuav tsum yog qhov zoo uas ceeb toom koj kom nyob twj ywm, ntseeg siab tias koj yuav zoo, thiab koj tuaj yeem thiab yuav muaj txoj sia nyob qhov xwm txheej no. Tsis txhob ua qhov tsis zoo txog qhov xwm txheej. Nws yuav tsuas yog ua tej yam tsis zoo.
- Nco koj tus kheej kom nyob twj ywm, nyob ntsiag to thiab tswj koj tus kheej. Qhov no tseem yuav pab koj kom pom meej txog tus tub sab qhov zoo, yog li koj tuaj yeem piav qhia nws rau tub ceev xwm tom qab.
- Qhia koj tus kheej tias koj yog tus siab tawv thiab yuav tuaj yeem ua nws los ntawm kev ua tub sab.
- Sim xav qee yam xws li "Kuv nyob zoo. Kuv yuav ciaj sia no. Kuv muaj lub siab tawv txaus los ua qhov no."
Kauj Ruam 2. Sim qee yam kev so kom txaus
Txawm hais tias nws yuav nyuaj rau lub sijhawm ua tub sab, cov txheej txheem so kom txaus tuaj yeem pab koj txo qis kev ntshai. Yog tias koj muaj peev xwm ua qee yam ntawm cov txuj ci no thaum ua tub sab lawv tuaj yeem pab ua kom koj nyob ntsiag to los ntawm kev raug mob.
- Qoj ib ce rau ob peb feeb thiab tom qab ntawd so nws. Ua qhov no rau txhua pawg leeg hauv koj lub cev.
- Pom qhov chaw nyab xeeb thiab so hauv koj lub siab uas koj tuaj yeem khiav mus. Sim siv tag nrho koj cov kev nkag siab thaum xav txog qhov chaw no.
- Ua tib zoo xav txog koj lub plawv dhia qis, koj ua pa qeeb, thiab koj lub cev so.
Kauj Ruam 3. Rov hais dua tus tub sab cov lus txib rau hauv nqe lus zoo
Tus tub sab tuaj yeem yws cov lus txib ntawm koj thiab cov no tuaj yeem ua rau koj xav tias ntshai, ntshai thiab ntxhov siab. Txawm li cas los xij, koj tuaj yeem rov hais dua cov lus txib no rau hauv cov lus pom zoo uas koj tau xaiv. Xav hauv txoj kev no thiab tuaj yeem pab ua rau koj nyob ntsiag to thiab ua rau koj nkag siab tias koj muaj qee qhov kev tswj hwm hauv qhov xwm txheej.
- Rov hais dua cov lus txib no sab hauv, hauv koj lub taub hau. Tsis txhob hais cov lus txib no nrov nrov.
- "Tsis txhob txav!" tuaj yeem rov hais dua li "Nyob twj ywm".
- "Tsis txhob saib!" tuaj yeem rov hais dua li "Saib lwm yam."
Kauj Ruam 4. Paub tias kev nyob ntsiag to ua rau koj nyab xeeb
Feem ntau cov tub sab tsuas yog nrhiav nyiaj. Koj tuaj yeem pab ua kom koj tus kheej nyob nyab xeeb los ntawm kev ceeb toom koj tus kheej tias kev nyob ntsiag to, nyob ntsiag to, thiab ua raws li koj nyob qis dua qhov koj yuav tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev phom sij thaum raug nyiag.
Txoj Kev 2 ntawm 2: Ua Qhov Yog
Kauj Ruam 1. Koom tes
Thaum ua tub sab nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb los ua pov thawj tias koj tsis yog kev hem thawj lossis teeb meem rau tus tub sab. Ib txoj hauv kev zoo los qhia qhov no yog nyob twj ywm thiab koom tes nrog tub sab. Ua haujlwm nrog tub sab cov lus txib los pab ua kom koj tus kheej thiab txhua tus neeg muaj kev nyab xeeb zoo li tuaj yeem ua tau thaum lub sijhawm nyiag.
- Tsis txhob muab kev pab dawb lossis nquag pab tus tub sab. Tsuas yog ua qhov lawv nug koj.
- Ua tib zoo mloog cov lus txib thiab ua haujlwm sai thiab muaj txiaj ntsig kom ua tiav lawv.
- Qhia rau tub sab ncaj qha txog txhua kauj ruam koj yuav tsum tau ua thiab piav qhia vim li cas koj thiaj ua.
- Nug lawv kev tso cai rau ib qho kev ua xws li muab koj txhais tes tso rau hauv tub rau khoom lossis hauv koj lub hnab ris ua ntej ua li ntawd.
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Saul Jaeger, MS
Police Captain, Mountain View Police Department Saul Jaeger is a Police Officer and Captain of the Mountain View, California Police Department (MVPD). Saul has over 17 years of experience as a patrol officer, field training officer, traffic officer, detective, hostage negotiator, and as the traffic unit’s sergeant and Public Information Officer for the MVPD. At the MVPD, in addition to commanding the Field Operations Division, Saul has also led the Communications Center (dispatch) and the Crisis Negotiation Team. He earned an MS in Emergency Services Management from the California State University, Long Beach in 2008 and a BS in Administration of Justice from the University of Phoenix in 2006. He also earned a Corporate Innovation LEAD Certificate from the Stanford University Graduate School of Business in 2018.
Saul Jaeger, MS
Police Captain, Mountain View Police Department
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Kauj Ruam 2. Nug kom paub meej hauv qhov yog
Yog tias koj tau txais cov lus txib los ntawm tus tub sab thiab koj tsis nkag siab qhov lawv nug, koj yuav xav nug kom paub meej. Ua li ntawd tuaj yeem muaj kev phom sij vim tus tub sab yuav ua rau muaj kev ntxhov siab thiab tshee. Sim nug ib nqe lus nug siv qee cov txuj ci hauv qab no kom ntseeg tau tias koj ua kom qhov xwm txheej nyob nyab xeeb raws li tuaj yeem ua tau:
- Khaws koj cov lus nug ncaj qha thiab luv. Hais qee yam xws li “Kuv thov txim. Kuv tsis nkag siab.” tuaj yeem yooj yim txaus thiab tseem tau txais koj lub tswv yim hla.
- Yog tias koj hnov ib yam dab tsi sim rov hais dua qhov koj xav tias koj tau hnov raws li lus nug. Piv txwv li "Koj xav tau tsuas yog 10 daus las nqi?"
- Koj yuav tsum tau thov kev tso cai ua ntej ua ib yam dab tsi uas yuav ua rau tub sab ntshai. Piv txwv li “Kuv yuav tsum mus txog hauv qab lub txee kom tau cov yuam sij. Qhov no puas yog?”
- Tsis txhob nug ib lo lus nug uas tsis cuam tshuam rau koj tus kheej tsis meej pem txog dab tsi uas tus tub sab tau nug.
Kauj Ruam 3. Hais ncaj qha thiab tsuas yog xav tau
Feem ntau thaum lub sijhawm ua tub sab koj yuav tsum nyob twj ywm ntsiag to li koj tuaj yeem ua tau. Txawm li cas los xij, tej zaum yuav muaj lub sijhawm thaum cov tub sab nug koj cov lus nug uas xav tau lus teb los ntawm koj. Hais lus ncaj ncees thiab ncaj qha tuaj yeem pab ua rau koj nyob twj ywm hauv koj cov lus teb.
- Cov lus teb ntev thaum lub sijhawm tub sab tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev ntxhov siab thiab ntshai.
- Sim ua cov lus teb hauv txoj hauv kev zoo, ua haujlwm nrog tus tub sab thiab qhia kev ua raws.
- Ib txwm teb ncaj ncees.
- Tsis txhob sim hloov lub tub sab siab.
- Piv txwv li, yog tias koj raug nug tias cov nyiaj yuav nyob qhov twg thiab yuav nkag mus rau nws li cas, koj yuav teb tias “Nyob nyab xeeb. Nws nyob ntawm no tom qab lub txee ". Tsis txhob mus rau hauv kev nthuav dav ntxiv txog cov nyiaj lossis nyab xeeb tshwj tsis yog nug.
Kauj Ruam 4. Tsis txhob tawm tsam tub sab lossis tawm tsam
Tub sab tsis xav tau kev sib ntaus. Kev sib ntaus yuav tsuas yog ua rau koj thiab tej zaum lwm tus neeg ua mob lossis tuag. Nyob ntsiag to thoob plaws qhov kev ua tub sab thiab tsis txhob sim muab thiab xaus rau nws los ntawm kev tawm tsam cov tub sab lossis sim ua kom lawv txoj hauv kev.
Tsiv mus qeeb thiab nyob ntsiag to. Kev txav nrawm tuaj yeem tshwm sim ua rau tus tub sab nyiag
Kauj Ruam 5. Nco tseg kom paub meej ntau npaum li koj tuaj yeem ua tau
Ua kom taug qab cov ntsiab lus hais txog tub sab thiab tub sab tuaj yeem siv rau tub ceev xwm thiab tseem tuaj yeem pab ua kom koj lub siab mob siab rau thiab nyob ntsiag to. Ua tib zoo saib xyuas kom ntxaws txog ob tus tub sab thiab tus tub sab tau ua dab tsi thaum lub sijhawm ua txhaum los pab kom koj so.
- Nco qab tias tus tub sab zoo li cas. Sau cov kev xav ntawm qhov siab, qhov hnyav, khaub ncaws, lossis lwm yam sib txawv.
- Nco qab tias tub sab ua dab tsi. Khaws cov ntaub ntawv puas siab ntsws ntawm txhua yam uas tus tub sab tau ua thiab ua li cas.
- Tsis txhob ntsia lossis tsis pom qhov muag nrog tus tub sab. Ua nrawm nrawm xwb.
- Tsis txhob tawm ntawm koj txoj hauv kev mus rau hauv cov ntsiab lus raws li qhov no tuaj yeem ua rau koj muaj kev phom sij.
Kauj Ruam 6. Hu rau tub ceev xwm thiab kaw txhua lub qhov rooj tom qab tub sab tawm mus
Tam sim ntawd tom qab tub sab tawm xauv txhua lub qhov rooj thiab lub qhov rais thiab hu rau tub ceev xwm los tshaj tawm koj qhov xwm txheej. Xauv qhov rooj thiab qhov rais yuav pab tiv thaiv tus tub sab kom rov qab los thiab khaws cia qhov ua txhaum cai rau thaum tub ceev xwm tuaj txog.
- Ua haujlwm nrog tub ceev xwm los piav qhia cov ntsiab lus ntawm kev ua tub sab uas koj nco qab.
- Tham nrog lwm tus ntawm qhov ua txhaum cai los pab kom koj nyob ntsiag to thiab nco qab cov ntsiab lus hais txog kev ua tub sab.
- Tsis txhob kov ib yam dab tsi hauv cheeb tsam li tub ceev xwm yuav xav tshawb xyuas nws.
- Txheeb xyuas qhov xwm txheej ntawm cov neeg tam sim no thaum lub qhov rooj thiab lub qhov rais tau nyab xeeb.
Lub tswv yim
- Nrhiav cov cim ntawm kev ntshai uas koj tuaj yeem ua rau pom thiab ua haujlwm kom lawv nqig.
- Tsom ntsoov rau koj lub cev thiab sim ua kom so rau txhua qhov uas koj pom tias nruj heev.
- Koj tuaj yeem sim xav txog thiab mus ntsib qhov chaw nyab xeeb thiab nyob ntsiag to hauv koj lub siab.
- Rov hais dua cov lus nyob ntsiag to rau koj tus kheej hauv koj lub siab.
- Rov hais dua cov lus txib hnyav thiab lus ntawm tus tub sab tuaj yeem pab ua rau koj nyob ntsiag to.
- Ib txwm ua raws li tus tub sab thiab tsis txhob sim tawm tsam lawv lossis ua teeb meem.
- Tej zaum koj yuav xav tau lossis xav tau kev kho mob tom qab kev ua tub sab.
Lus ceeb toom
- Tsis txhob tawm tsam thaum lub sij hawm tub sab.
- Tsis txhob ua kom nrawm lossis nrawm.
- Tsis txhob sib cav lossis hais lus ntau dua li qhov koj yuav tsum tau ua nrog tub sab.
- Tsis txhob muag qhov muag nrog tub sab.
