Txhawm rau kom laus dua, koj yuav tsum hnav khaub ncaws zoo li tus neeg laus thiab ua zoo li ib tus. Txawm hais tias tsis yog txhua tus neeg laus dua koj yuav muaj kev nkag siab zoo ib yam lossis muaj tus cwj pwm thiab tus cwj pwm zoo ib yam, muaj qee qhov yam ntxwv tshwj xeeb uas los nrog lub hnub nyoog. Txawm hais tias koj yuav tsum saib zoo li qub rau qhov laj thawj tshaj lij, rau kev hnav khaub ncaws koj hnav lossis tus yam ntxwv koj tab tom ua si, lossis tsuas yog vim koj xav kom zoo li me ntsis paub tab, koj tuaj yeem ua tau nrog qee qhov kev hloov pauv yooj yim uas yuav ntxiv xyoo sai sai rau koj qhov tsos.
Cov kauj ruam
Ntu 1 ntawm 4: Hnav Laus (Rau Cov Ntxhais)
Kauj Ruam 1. Ua kom koj tus kheej siab dua nrog khau zoo
Ib txoj hauv kev yooj yim los saib cov laus yog kom siab dua. Sim hnav pob taws siab. Ntxiv ib nti lossis ob qho rau koj qhov siab tuaj yeem ua rau pom kev zoo dua qub. Qhov no tuaj yeem ua tiav nrog "khau siab khau siab" tab sis kuj tseem yooj yim dua rau khau khau xws li wedges lossis khau.
Muaj peev xwm taug kev nyab xeeb hauv pob taws. Hauv qee kis, hnav tshwj xeeb tshaj yog cov khau siab yuav ua rau koj tawm los tsis paub qab hau. Koj tsis xav kom zoo li tus ntxhais hnav niam khau. Teetering thiab tottering thaum taug kev zoo li koj tsis muaj kev paub thiab yog li ntawd menyuam yaus es tsis paub tab
Kauj Ruam 2. Yuav khaub ncaws ntau dua
Khaub ncaws yog ib txoj hauv kev yooj yim tshaj plaws uas tib neeg tuaj yeem tswj hwm nws lub ntsej muag. Hnav khaub ncaws uas qhia txog kev loj hlob yog ib txoj hauv kev los ua kom "hnub nyoog laus dua" saib.
- Cov tsho thiab cov tsho hnav feem ntau zoo li cov neeg laus ntau dua T-shirts lossis lwm hom khaub ncaws. Thaum cov neeg ntawm txhua lub hnub nyoog nyiam hnav T-shirts, lawv nyiam ua lub siab ntawm cov hluas, ntau dua li ib tus neeg nrog txoj haujlwm. Hnav cov tsho xaum nrog lub dab tshos xwb.
- Zam cov khaub ncaws tshiab Qhov no suav nrog T-shirt nrog cov cim tas luav, cov cim logo, lossis cov lus tso dag rau lawv.
- Zam kev dai kom zoo nkauj. Cov khaub ncaws ntawm menyuam yaus nyiam muaj hneev, ci, hlaws, thiab lwm yam kev vam meej. Cov khaub ncaws neeg laus tsis muaj ze li ntawm.
- Xaiv cov xim qis, ntau dua li cov xim ci. Cov poj niam laus nyiam hnav cov xim tsis zoo: dub, txho, xim av, dawb, thiab lwm yam. (Tau kawg lawv tuaj yeem hnav cov xim twg, tab sis cov no zoo li yog cov khoom tseem ceeb ntawm cov neeg laus khaub ncaws). Zam cov xim uas nyiam los ntawm cov menyuam yaus, xws li paj yeeb paj yeeb.
- Cov khaub ncaws zoo nkauj thiab cov ris tsho hnav, lub tsho khuam cashmere, hloov pauv lo lo ntxhuav, thiab tiab linen yog txhua qhov kev xaiv zoo rau cov tib neeg uas xav kom zoo li lawv tau muaj qee qhov kev paub hauv lub neej. Muab cov paj rwb, paj rwb thiab cov ris tsho tso tawm.
- Khaws ncaws pob rau kev tawm dag zog. Kev hnav khaub ncaws zoo nkauj feem ntau zoo li tsis sib xws, thiab qhov ntawd ua rau lub zog ntawm cov hluas. Qhov zam tau yog lub tsho polo thiab kev ntaus golf zoo lossis khaub ncaws ntaus pob.
- Yog tias koj yog tub ntxhais hluas thiab koj ib txwm mus yuav khoom hauv cov tub ntxhais hluas ntu ntawm lub khw muag khoom, mus rau cov neeg laus hauv ntu tom ntej rau cov piv txwv zoo ntawm cov khaub ncaws uas yuav ua rau koj saib me ntsis.
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Kauj Ruam 3. Hnav hloov maj mam, cov qauv qub
Cov neeg laus hnav cov khaub ncaws uas muaj qauv, tab sis lawv tsis zoo ib yam li khaub ncaws tsim rau menyuam yaus. Khaws nrog cov qauv qub xws li paj ntoo, kab txaij, plaids thiab paisleys. Polka dots thiab tsiaj luam tawm (xws li tsov txaij luam ntawv) yog cov kev xaiv qub, tab sis tseem tuaj yeem tawm los ua hluas.
Hnav cov pob zeb zoo nkauj tsis yog pastels. Cov xim pastels thiab neon ci zoo li zoo li menyuam yaus ntau dua li cov xim tawv (xim liab, xiav xiav) thiab cov xim tsis meej (xws li mauve lossis beige)
Kauj Ruam 4. Tsis txhob hnav khaub ncaws zoo li menyuam yaus
Hnav khaub ncaws nrog Hello Kitty lossis Disney cov cim ntawm lawv qw menyuam yaus. Cov qauv hluas yuav ua rau koj zoo li hluas, yooj yim tso. Yog tias koj ib txwm muaj lub ntsej muag saib hluas, hnav khaub ncaws uas haum koj zoo thiab npog koj lub cev ntau dua tuaj yeem yog tus yuam sij rau saib me ntsis. Zam cov khaub ncaws thiab cov qauv hauv qab no:
- "Daisy Dukes": luv luv denim txiav siab heev hauv txhais ceg thiab kaw nruj hauv qab.
- Mini tiab
- Cov T-shirt tshiab: T-shirt nrog cov cim tas luav, tso dag, tshaj tawm, thiab lwm yam.
- Lub kaus mom Baseball
- Hnab ris tsho
- Hom lossis lub cim cuam tshuam nrog menyuam yaus (txawm tias ntau tus neeg laus nyiam lawv): Disney, Hello Kitty, Pokémon.
- Nkawm khau
Kauj Ruam 5. Txiav txim siab mus "tus kws tshaj lij," yog tias koj tuaj yeem rub nws tawm lossis nws yuav tsim nyog
Nyob ntawm lub hnub nyoog uas koj tab tom tua rau, thiab hnub nyoog koj yog, nws yuav zoo rau hnav mus txog qib tseem ceeb, lossis nws tuaj yeem zoo li koj tab tom ua si "hnav." Nws yog lub tswv yim zoo los sim qee yam nrog cov khaub ncaws hnav, kom pom tias koj tuaj yeem rub tawm qhov paub tab, ua haujlwm zoo, lossis yog tias tsuas yog ua rau koj zoo li hluas dua.
- Qhov no yuav ua haujlwm yog tias koj yog neeg laus dua lossis tsawg dua. Ib tus menyuam hnub nyoog 11 xyoos hnav cov khaub ncaws ua lag luam yuav tsis rub tawm qhov zoo, tab sis kuv muaj 18 xyoo tsuas yog yuav.
- Yog tias koj tab tom sim tsuas yog saib 18 lossis 21, tsom mus rau qhov siab ntxiv thiab siv pleev ua kom koj tus kheej zoo dua qub. Yog tias koj xav saib ntau dua "paub tab," vim tias koj yog neeg laus nrog lub ntsej muag yau dua, sim ua khaub ncaws hnav khaub ncaws.
Kauj Ruam 6. Saib cov piv txwv ntawm hnub nyoog uas koj tab tom tua
Yog tias koj muaj 18 xyoo thiab sim saib 21, koj yuav xav saib txawv ntau dua li yog koj muaj 12 xyoos thiab sim saib 17. Koj cov kwv tij txheeb ze hnav li cas, lossis koj nyiam cov cim hauv TV? Nrhiav cov neeg uas saib zoo nkauj thiab zoo nkauj, thiab xyuam xim rau qhov lawv hnav.
Nco tseg cov xim thiab qauv uas lawv hnav, haum ntawm lawv cov khaub ncaws, hom khau uas lawv muaj. Txheeb xyuas tag nrho cov pob. Pib nrhiav cov khoom zoo sib xws los tsim koj tus kheej cov khaub ncaws hnav
Ntu 2 ntawm 4: Hnav Laus (Rau Cov Tub)
Kauj Ruam 1. Hnav ris, tsis yog luv
Thaum cov txiv neej ntawm txhua lub hnub nyoog hnav luv luv, lawv tsis raug cai thiab feem ntau cuam tshuam nrog cov tub thiab ncaws pob hnav. Txhawm rau saib me ntsis me me, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws los hnav zoo, ris lub cev haum, thiab tawm luv rau lub gym.
Nws yog qhov tshwj xeeb tshaj yog kom zam cov hnab ntim khoom luv luv thiab cov kis las luv ntawm txhua yam. Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog hnab luv yuav ib txwm saib hluas
Kauj Ruam 2. Hnav cov tsho tsis yog lub tsho T-shirt
Hnav lub tsho khawm kom haum zoo zoo li qub dua li T-shirt, ib puas feem pua ntawm lub sijhawm. Cov tsho hnav khaub ncaws lossis cov tsho hnav tsoos tsho zoo saib zoo, txawm tias koj xav saib 17 lossis 70.
Nco ntsoov tias lub tsho tsis loj rau koj, lossis koj yuav zoo li menyuam yaus hnav nws txiv cov khaub ncaws. Lub tes tsho ntawm cov tsho sib tsoo yuav tsum tuaj rau ntawm lub dab teg thaum koj txhais caj npab tawm ncaj ntawm koj ob sab. Tsis muaj ntxiv
Kauj Ruam 3. Tsuas yog hnav khau ntaub rau kis las
Cov neeg ntawm txhua lub hnub nyoog hnav khau tennis thiab khau ntaub, tab sis yog tias koj twb zoo li hluas, lawv yuav ua rau koj saib hluas dua. Yog tias koj tab tom sim kom dhau hnub nyoog laus dua, hnav qee cov khau laus. Koj tsis tas yuav hnav loafers laus-txiv neej, tab sis ntau cov tawv tawv lossis khau faux-tawv yuav ib txwm saib laus dua khau ntaub.
Yog tias koj luv dua qhov koj xav ua, koj tuaj yeem ua rau koj tus kheej siab dua nrog Doc Martens, lossis caij maus taus lossis khau looj plab hlaub uas muaj luj taws, lossis nce lub platform me ntsis
Kauj Ruam 4. Hnav thom khwm tsaus
Hnav cov thom khwm dub lossis xiav tsaus yuav zoo li qhov me me, tab sis nws ua rau tus txiv leej tub saib zoo dua qub thiab laus dua me ntsis. Nws yog ib qho yooj yim kho. Tshem cov thom khwm dawb thiab hnav cov xim dub.
Kauj Ruam 5. Hnav khaub ncaws uas haum koj lub cev kom raug
Hnav khaub ncaws thiab khaub ncaws nruj yuav ua rau koj zoo nkauj dua, txawm li cas los xij. Cov neeg laus paub yuav ua li cas xaiv qhov loj me uas haum rau lawv lub cev-hom. Siv sijhawm qee lub sijhawm hauv khw, sim khaub ncaws, txhawm rau txheeb xyuas seb yam twg zoo. Tsis txhob cia li hnav thawj qhov koj pom.
Kauj Ruam 6. Hnav khaub ncaws huv
Cov menyuam yaus feem ntau hnav lub tsho me me, cov khaub ncaws zoo li lawv tau rub tawm ntawm cov khaub ncaws. Cov neeg laus hnav khaub ncaws zoo huv si. Saib zoo li koj zoo li koj saib thiab muab koj tus kheej ua ke nrog cov khaub ncaws huv.
Ntu 3 ntawm 4: Tsim Koj Tus Kheej
Kauj Ruam 1. Tau txiav plaub hau ntau dua
Qee qhov kev txiav plaub hau tuaj yeem ua rau tib neeg lub ntsej muag zoo li hluas dua, thaum lwm tus muab lub tswv yim ntawm kev ua tiav thiab lub zog. Nov yog ob peb yam uas yuav tsum nco ntsoov lub sijhawm tom ntej koj mus rau tom khw lossis txiav plaub hau:
- Nyob deb ntawm tus ntxhais me bangs. Ncaj bangs uas tau txiav saum cov plaub muag yog ntxim hlub, tab sis lawv ua rau tib neeg saib hluas. Sweep koj qhov chaw hla rau qhov zoo saib.
- Tsis txhob mus rau qhov shaggy zoo. Qhov no ua rau koj xav tsis thoob, txawm tias koj yog txiv leej tub lossis ntxhais. Khaws koj cov plaub hau txiav thiab zoo.
- Sim bob los yog ploj mus. Nov yog ob qho kev txiav plaub hau uas koj yuav pom ntawm cov neeg uas mus ua nom tswv lossis tshuaj. Xaiv cov plaub hau uas ua rau koj saib zoo thiab muaj zog, txawm hais tias koj lub xyoo.
- Sim nrog cov plaub hau tsaus nti. Cov plaub hau feem ntau ib txwm tsaus ntuj nyob rau lub sijhawm, thiab cov plaub hau tsaus xim yog li ua rau koj saib laus dua. Tsis txhob hla hla, txawm li cas los xij, vim qhov no yuav tsis muab cov txiaj ntsig uas koj xav tau. Txoj cai zoo yog nyob hauv ob qhov ntxoov ntawm koj cov plaub hau xim ib txwm.
- Cov txiv neej yuav tsum sim ua plaub hau ntsej muag. Cov txiv neej uas tuaj yeem loj hlob nws zoo li qub nrog cov plaub hau ntawm lub ntsej muag, tab sis yog tias koj lub ntsej muag ntse, nyob huv huv.
Kauj Ruam 2. Hloov koj cov plaub hau txhua hnub
Cov kauj ruam yooj yim no tuaj yeem siv txoj hauv kev ntev los ua kom koj saib zoo dua. Siv sijhawm los zuag koj cov plaub hau thiab muab tso rau hauv chignon, siv cov gel txhawm rau txheeb xyuas koj cov plaub hau, lossis ncaj nws.
- Hla hneev thiab barrettes, uas zoo li menyuam yaus.
- Tsis txhob hnav pigtails lossis braids. Cov no tuaj yeem saib zoo, tab sis yuav ib txwm saib hluas.
- Hnav koj cov plaub hau tuaj yeem hais txog koj cov yam ntxwv hluas, thiab zoo li zoo li cov menyuam yaus ntau dua li hnav koj cov plaub hau, uas tuaj yeem pab txhawm rau ncua koj lub ntsej muag thiab thav duab kom nws zoo li neeg laus dua.
Kauj Ruam 3. Mus yooj yim ntawm pleev
Coob leej neeg xav tias hnav ntau pleev yuav ua rau lawv saib laus dua, tab sis nws tuaj yeem ua rau muaj qhov cuam tshuam tsis zoo yog tias koj siv ntau dhau. Mus rau daim ntawv thov qub ntawm lub hauv paus, qhov muag duab ntxoov ntxoo, lub qhov muag pom, thiab ntsej muag, nrog daim di ncauj uas tsuas yog ob peb ntxoov tsaus dua li koj cov xim ntuj.
Nyob deb ntawm qhov muag duab ntxoov ntxoo xiav lossis lwm yam xim zoo nkauj, uas ua rau koj zoo li menyuam yaus ua si nrog pleev. Hla lub glitter thiab ci ntsa iab thiab hnav cov khoom matte xwb
Kauj Ruam 4. Siv lub ntsej muag tsaus ntuj kom ntxiv duab ntxoov ntxoo thiab qhov tob
Kos ib kab pib los ntawm hauv qab koj lub puab tsaig ntawm ob sab ntawm lub ntsej muag. Tom ntej no hauv qab kab puab tsaig, los tsim qhov ua kom yuag yuag. Hauv qab ntawm tus choj ntawm lub qhov ntswg, thiab ntawm ob sab ntawm koj lub hauv pliaj.
Kauj Ruam 5. Qhia koj lub hauv pliaj
Siv lub ntsej muag sib zog me dua li koj cov tawv nqaij, nqes tus choj ntawm lub qhov ntswg nyob hauv nruab nrab, ntawm lub puab tsaig sab saud tsaus ntuj nti, hauv qab koj lub qhov muag thiab hauv qab koj lub puab tsaig.
Ntu 4 ntawm 4: Ua Tus Laus
Kauj Ruam 1. Tshaj tawm kev ntseeg siab
Tsis muaj dab tsi sib tham txog kev loj hlob zoo li kev ntseeg siab. Txawm hais tias koj lub cev zoo li tus kheej, tus yam ntxwv tshwj xeeb, lossis kev sib raug zoo tsis zoo li qub uas koj xav tau, lawv tsis tas yuav txwv koj los ntawm kev kwv yees kev ntseeg siab ntawm tus neeg laus. Ua lub hnub nyoog uas koj xav ua.
- Leej twg yog tus neeg ntseeg siab tshaj plaws uas koj paub? Tuaj nrog kev ntseeg siab "thauj tog rau nkoj" lossis tus kheej uas yuav pab koj ua ib feem, tej zaum tsim tau ntawm tus qauv kev ntseeg siab uas koj qhuas, Clooney lossis Angelina.
- Siv tus neeg ntseeg siab ntawd los ua tus thauj tog rau hauv txhua qhov kev nqis tes ua. Nws yuav zoo li ua dag, tab sis sim xav txog tias tus neeg ntawd yuav taug kev hauv chav li cas, thiab sim ua qhov kev ntseeg siab ntawd. Taug kev zoo li koj ntseeg siab. Ncuav ib khob dej zoo li koj ntseeg siab.
Kauj Ruam 2. Txhim kho koj lub cev
Slouching yuav tsis qhia txog kev loj hlob uas koj xav tau. Hloov chaw, tuav koj lub taub hau siab thiab ncaj koj lub nraub qaum kom ntau li ntau tau. Siv lus cev los tham txog kev loj hlob.
Sawv ntsug ncaj tsis tsuas yog phiaj xwm kev ntseeg siab, tab sis pab ua kom koj zoo li tus neeg siab dua thiab paub tab, thaum koj txav mus los hauv ib chav. Qhov siab dua, zoo dua
Kauj Ruam 3. Ua siab ntev thiab nyob ntsiag to
Cov menyuam yaus nrov nrov thiab feem ntau tsis quav ntsej txog kev sib raug zoo. Ua kom paub tab. Yog tias koj nyob thoob plaws qhov chaw, ua siab ntev thiab muaj zog txhua lub sijhawm, koj yuav zoo li menyuam yaus txawm tias koj hnav dab tsi. Tsis txhob tham nrov nrov, thiab xav txog cov neeg nyob ib puag ncig koj. Tham ntau ntxiv txog lwm tus neeg tshaj li koj tus kheej, thiab paub thaum twg kom tso kev ntsiag to tham.
Mloog zoo mloog lwm tus hais. Ob peb yam qhia pom kev loj hlob ntxiv nrog rau ua tus mloog zoo. Ua tus neeg sib tham zoo uas txaus siab rau yam tib neeg hais; sim ntxiv cov lus ntuas yog tias koj xav tias lawv nkag siab
Kauj Ruam 4. Hais lus zoo li tus neeg laus
Txawm hais tias koj saib ib feem, koj tuaj yeem rhuav nws sai heev thaum koj qhib koj lub qhov ncauj. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb los hais lus kom ntseeg siab, siv cov lus xaiv raug thiab hais lus tso cai txog yam koj tab tom tham txog, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias koj tab tom dag tib neeg.
- Txiav cov lus sau. sim siv tsawg dua "nyiam" thiab "ums."
- Sim txhim kho koj cov lus. Nyeem ntau kom kawm qee lo lus tshiab thiab sim suav nrog lawv hauv koj cov lus niaj hnub. Siv cov qauv sau ntawv zoo (tsis yog lus slang) thiab tsis txhob txaj muag.
